知识点：《陆游唐婉》收集：洪痪低编辑：月季姐姐
本知识点包括：1、陆游唐婉的故事 2、陆游、唐婉的《钗头凤》原文及赏析 3、陆游唐婉的钗头凤 4、《钗头凤》（ 陆游 唐婉 ）的赏析 5、陆游和唐婉的凄美爱情故事谁知道。 。
Lu You grew up with his cousin Tang Wan (唐琬),who was quiet but loved literature.They fell deeply in love and were married when he was 20.But they had no children,and his mother did not like Tang Wan.Though they had lived happily together,his mother forced them to divorce in order to make Lu You concentrate on studying to fulfill his aspiration of saving the Song dynasty.In traditional Chinese culture,children were required to obey their parents.Lu You loved his mother and reluctantly divorced Tang Wan.She later married a nobleman named Zhao Shi Cheng,and he married a woman from the Wang clan (her personal name eludes most researchers).
Lu You was sad after his first marriage broke up.One spring day,at age 31,eight years after their divorce,he passed by Sheng's Garden and by chance encountered Tang Wan and her husband.Tang Wan asked her husband to let her send a glass of wine to Lu You.When her hands passed the wine to him,he saw her eyes brimmed with tears.His heart was broken,and he drank the glass of bitter wine to the bottom.He turned away and on the spot wrote the poem “Phoenix Pin” on the wall of Sheng's Garden.After this meeting with Tang Wan,Lu You went to the North to struggle against the foreign Jin Dynasty,before returning to southern Shu (today’s Sichuan) to pursue his dream of unifying China.
When Tang Wan read Lu You's poem in the garden,she immediately wrote one in the same form in response.Less than a year later,she died.In the year before Lu You’s death,at age 85,he wrote another poem called “Shen's Garden” to commemorate Tang Wan,his first love.A traditional yue opera was written about Lu You and Tang Wan,and their love story is very famous in China.
《沈园》
城上斜阳画角哀,沈园非复旧池台.
伤心桥下春波绿,曾是惊鸿照影来.
The Shen Garden
The sun is sinking behind the city wall
to the sad notes of a shining bugle.
In the Shen Garden,
the pond and the pavilion appear
no longer to be the same,
except the heart-breaking spring ripples
still so green under the bridge,
the ripples that reflected her arrival
light-footed,in such beauty
as would shame wild goose into fleeing.
宋高宗绍兴十四年,二十岁的陆游和表妹唐婉结为伴侣.两人从小青梅竹马,婚后相敬如宾.然而,唐婉的才华横溢与陆游的亲密感情,引起了陆母的不满,以至最后发展到强迫陆游和她离婚.陆游和唐婉的感情很深,不愿分离,他一次又一次地向母亲恳求,都遭到了母亲的责骂.在封建礼教的压制下,虽种种哀告,终归走到了“执手相看泪眼”的地步.
真相：根据陆游自己在晚年的诗作（《剑南诗稿》卷十四）是因为唐婉不孕,而遭公婆逐出.
陆游迫于母命,万般无奈,便与唐婉忍痛分离.后来,陆游依母亲的心意,另娶王氏为妻,唐婉也迫于父命嫁给同郡的赵士程.这一对年轻人的美满婚姻就这样被拆散了年后的一个春天,陆游满怀忧郁的心情独自一人漫游山阴城沈家花园.正当他独坐独饮,借酒浇愁之时,突然他意外地看见了唐婉及其改嫁后的丈夫赵士程.
尽管这时他已与唐婉分离多年,但是内心里对唐婉的感情并没有完全摆脱.他想到,过去唐婉是自己的爱妻,而今已属他人,好像禁宫中的杨柳,可望而不可及.
想到这里,悲痛之情顿时涌上心头,他放下酒杯,正要抽身离去.不料这时唐婉征得赵士程的同意,给他送来一杯酒,陆游看到唐婉这一举动,体会到了她的深情,两行热泪凄然而下,一扬头喝下了唐婉送来的这杯苦酒.然后在粉墙之上奋笔题下《钗头凤》这首千古绝唱.
陆游在这首词里抒发的是爱情遭受摧残后的伤感、内疚和对唐婉的深情爱慕,以及对他母亲棒打鸳鸯的不满情绪.
陆游题词之后,又深情地望了唐婉一眼,便怅然而去.陆游走后,唐婉孤零零地站在那里,将这首《钗头凤》词从头至尾反复看了几遍,她再也控制不住自己的感情,便失声痛哭起来.回到家中,她愁怨难解,于是也和了一首《钗头凤》词.唐婉不久便郁闷愁怨而死.
此后,陆游北上抗金,又转川蜀任职,几十年的风雨生涯,依然无法排遣诗人心中的眷恋,他六十三岁,“偶复来菊缝枕囊,凄然有感”,又写了两首情词哀怨的诗：
采得黄花作枕囊,曲屏深幌闷幽香.
唤回四十三年梦,灯暗无人说断肠!
少日曾题菊枕诗,囊编残稿锁蛛丝.
人间万事消磨尽,只有清香似旧时!
在他六十七岁的时候,重游沈园,看到当年题《钗头凤》的半面破壁,触景生情,感慨万千,又写诗感怀：
枫叶初丹桷叶黄,河阳愁鬓怯新霜.
林亭感旧空回首,泉路凭谁说断肠.
坏壁醉题尘漠漠,断云幽梦事茫茫,
年来妄念消除尽,回向蒲龛一炷香.
后陆游七十五岁,住在沈园的附近,“每入城,必登寺眺望,不能胜情”,写下绝句两首,即《沈园》诗二首：
城上斜阳画角哀,沈园非复旧池台.伤心桥下春波绿,曾是惊鸿照影来.
梦断香消四十年,沈园柳老不吹绵,此身行作稽山土,犹吊遗踪一泫然.陆游手书钗头凤
陆游临终前一年,再游沈园,写下最后一首思念唐婉的诗：《春游》：沈家园里花如锦,半是当年识放翁.也信美人终作土,不堪幽梦太.
提示：陆游与唐婉原本是表兄妹，陆游大约在二十岁左右，与唐琬成婚。婚后伉俪相得，感情很好。不料引起了陆母的不满，后陆母认为唐琬把儿子的前程耽误殆尽，遂命陆游休了唐琬。陆游曾另筑别院安置唐琬，其母察觉后，命陆游另娶一位安守本分的王氏女为...
提示：原文： 红酥手，黄籘酒，满城春色宫墙柳。东风恶，欢情薄，一怀愁绪，几年离索。错，错，错！ 春如旧，人空瘦，泪痕红浥鲛绡透。桃花落，闲池阁，山盟虽在，锦书难托。莫，莫，莫！ 世情薄，人情恶，雨送黄昏花易落。晓风乾，泪痕残，欲笺心事，...
提示：《钗头凤·红酥手》 红酥手，黄縢酒，满城春色宫墙柳。东风恶，欢情保一怀愁绪，几年离索。错、错、错。 春如旧，人空瘦，泪痕红浥鲛绡透。桃花落，闲池阁。山盟虽在，锦书难托。莫、莫、莫！ 白话译文 红润酥腻的手里，捧着盛上黄縢酒的杯子。满...
提示：红酥手，黄藤酒，满城春色宫墙柳。 东风恶，欢情薄， 一怀愁绪，几年离索。 错！错！错！ 春如旧，人空瘦，泪痕红浥鲛绡透。 桃花落，闲池阁， 山盟虽在，锦书难托。 莫！莫！莫！ 译文： 你柔软光滑细腻的手，捧出黄封的酒，满城荡漾着春天的景...
提示：诗人陆游年轻时娶表妹——诗名卓著的“苏门四学士”之一晁补之的孙女唐琬为妻。夫妻二人诗书唱和，感情深厚。“伉俪相得”，“琴瑟甚和”。但因陆母不喜唐琬，恐误其儿前程，威逼二人各自另行嫁娶。在陆游百般劝谏、哀求而无效的情势下，二人终于被迫分...